“To Fall in love with someone” is a common expression that has been with us for a long time but does it really mean that we fall into an undesirable trap? The expression has no negative meaning whatsoever but it indicates the involuntary act of finding ourselves in an unplanned and out of control state of love. So does falling “victim” to love make us losers or winners?

The very fact of being in a state of love can be lived and expressed in different ways. The feeling of being put “out of balance” could cause disturbance to many whose lack of control gives them a feeling of insecurity since the mind and the heart are being “hijacked” by the person they are in love with.

To others, this state is lived as a vertical ascent and therefore can be more accurately described as “rising in love”. In fact love has got its own language; Love involves rushing into things, being amazed and loving each other without despair…Love waters you and puffs out your chest, it gives you wings and off you go… Love makes you sing, makes you cry, it makes you a creator and a luminous star… Love nourishes, cleanses and restores… Love is the best neighbourhood where you can choose to live. So have no fear, have no doubt, and live your love no matter what!

There are no losers, there are no winners as Love is me, love is you, and to be in love is a union of two!

– Ralouka Montesi –